Wednesday, October 31, 2012

Unplanned Stop: Canary Islands



Canary Islands:
The Canary Islands were beautiful; I was grateful to be privileged enough to go there; they were not Morocco.  I do understand fully why we didn’t go, and I still mourn the loss of getting an intercultural exchange where groups of people could come to better understanding of one another.  I trust that this all happened for a reason, and wonder if I’m just simply supposed to travel there at a later date with my friend Garrett Naiman and our copies of The Alchemist and hang out at the Marrakesh market and camp out under the stars in the Sahara.  Anyways, the Canary Islands were dramatically beautiful.  We arrived on a Sunday, sailing in to Tenerife—a city poised on beautiful waters and in between volcanic folds of mountains with sharp edged-tops.  The Canary Islands are a part of Spain, and were named after all of the wild dogs on the islands…and then the birds were named after the islands.  Sunday in Canary was quiet;  there was a big market in town with lots of odds and ends that went on for several blocks, beginning with permanent stores, waving out to tables and booths, and ending essentially with lots of people with their wares on blankets on the sidewalks.  I bought a pair of $5 shorts which were definitely worth $5, and no more or no less.  I also got a dark leather brown bracelet with a silver spiral on it that was all hand-made and probably the coolest thing in the entire market.  It was still early when we left and passed by the Santa Cruz cathedral, which was having Mass.  I went in with a couple of shipmates for a service—I’ve never been to Mass before (I’ve been to Catholic weddings) and one of the things on my scavenger list is to go to a religious service that is not of my denomination.  Also, as a midpoint in the voyage, it was a good time to reflect and pray.  After Mass, we had lunch on the ship and rallied a group to go over the mountain to Tenerife, another city on the island with black-sand beaches (from the volcanoes).  There were 9 of us, which warranted two taxies.  Yes, we got separated.  Our taxi pulled ahead and dropped us off and we spent the next 45 minutes hiking to the left through the city (which had a variety of rocky beaches right in the city-front—places that you could walk out along a concrete wharf and climb down in to the ocean as if it were one giant powerful pool.  There was also a private pool area with huge pools.  In my group was Jacques, Emily, and Jonathan, and we had fun hiking around looking for the other party.  I stopped for gelato—fig & marscapone—awesome.  After searching very far to the left (you know where this story is going, yes?) we came back to center and got into the ocean to cool off.  Then we all took a nap on the beach plaza by the stony beach (there was a beach plaza—with showers).  It was a great nap, and a little strange to just fall asleep in the middle of a city, albeit at the beach plaza.  After our nap we decided to wander a bit and look for a good place for drinks or dinner, when Jacques had the most brilliant idea—to find a postcard of where we were (since we never really found the big black sand beach).  Once we found an aerial postcard, we realized that the big black beach was way to the right, and we headed in that direction to see if we could find the other group of folks (Kierra, Keith, Kate, Annalyn, and Brett).  We agreed to run towards our friends in slo-mo if we saw them.  We got to the black sand beach, which was beautiful, but there were no friends there.  We hung out on the beach for a bit looking for seaglass when they found us—they had hung out there for a bit, and then headed to the big pools, and then came back to look for us.  Reunited, we all went out to a Chinese buffet for dinner (40 dishes for 7 euro), watched an amazing sunset, and then watched Annalyn and Brett get a fish pedicure.
Santa Cruz, Canary Islands

Tenerife, Canary Islands--we swam & napped here

black sand beach, Tenerife, canary islands

dancing with the clouds while sailing towards Africa
Day 2—Jonathan Kroll (one of my RDs who is getting his PhD from Fielding Institute) and I led a leadership retreat.  We had 10 students come, and I think it went well.  Since this was an added-on country, we wanted to take the opportunity to provide something free and different for students.  That was only about 2.5 hours, and at the end of the retreat I headed out to wander solo around Santa Cruz—I stopped by a market with over 50 stalls and got curried beef empanadas and pistachio baklava for dessert.  I also found an internet café and caught up on emails over a cappuccino and then headed back to the ship with a lot of extra chocolate to use up my euros.  Leaving the Canary Islands was breathtaking—the sun set over the islands with the volcano making an appearance to the left, and Jacques and I stood out in the warm air with the cool breeze making us feel weightless as we snapped picture after picture of the dance of the cumulous clouds in the sweet-tart sky, laughing like 6 year olds—for me, it was one of those eternally timeless moments, laughing and being bathed in beauty from every side, suspended above the ocean and making our way on to new adventures as we headed to Africa.

Wednesday, October 24, 2012

Spain continued--Rooftop Views


Monday, Day 2
On day two in Cadiz I went on a mid-morning run through the city—I headed right along the city walls with the ocean as a backdrop;  after a mile or so I decided to pop in to the old city proper to run along its streets and alleys.  I love these runs;  they always give me good perspectives and good introspectives.  It feels good to move off of the ship and stretch my legs a bit without the ground moving beneath me, and running in venues that I have never before seen is exhilarating.  I also have to keep my wits about me, as traffic laws and sidewalk availability varies from country to country and city to city.  Toss in motorbikes, bicyclists, and dogs + their aftermath—it all keeps me on my toes and keeps me very present in the here and now.  I like that all of my senses are engaged (well, maybe not taste right then), and I feel very fully alive.  That being said, I did get undeniably lost in Cadiz for a good while—kept me running a little further than I would have otherwise, but still so many sights to take in.  I finally found my way because of Meson La Cuesta—it was at the end of the little street I had been running on (approaching from the other side), and from there I made it back to the ship for a quick shower and then down to meet Susanah and Brian.  Brian had a bit of work to do so we all hung out at a café and Susanah and I got to know one another a little bit more.  She was gracious enough to let me practice my Spanish and we moved in and out of two languages during our conversation about life and love and living to the fullest.  Once Brian was all set we headed out of Cadiz to do some sight-seeing.  We headed over to Arco de La Frontera, one of the Blancos Pueblos.  Arcos de La Frontera is a medieval village propped high on an outcropping in the middle of fertile farmland.  It was beautiful and picturesque with narrow twisting streets that would occasionally open up onto a spectacular vista like a gift.  One of the highlights of the day (once we were through) was looking for parking just a little bit further in to town, which resulted in driving entirely through the old town in Brian’s SUV.  I have some good video of this—I’m truly not sure how we made it, but the locals waved us on through as though this was normal—which it was, just not for me.  I do have some good video of the ride that I will post once I get access to bigger bandwidth (probably stateside).  We drove back around and parked lower/away from the town center.  We went to the town cathedral and then over to a hotel, a parador —which essentially is a luxury hotel that almost like a heritage site but also still a business establishment, with great views of the surrounding countryside.  Some water, some wine, some olives, some sunset, and then off to find a place to eat on foot.   Evening was watching the rest of the sunset out on a patio with tortillas de patatas, manchego, stuffed red peppers, salad, salmorejo (cold tomato soup with egg, parsley, and jamon on top).  We took a walk through the streets back down to our car during the “magic hour”, that time of day when the sky is an ultramarine/cornflower blue and the lights all begin to twinkle, to find that we had an almost-parking ticket—essentially, if we paid what we owed (an extra hour), we could avoid the fine.  It was a cool system.


Tuesday, Day 3
We begin this day with the re-connecting to Kate and Katie, who had spent the previous day in Gibraltar (there may have been some late-night port in someone’s cabin the night/early morning before).  We all piled in to Brian and Susanah’s car and headed in to Sevilla to commence another day of great company, great food, and great sights.  We started by heading to a local tapas bar for some of the best tapas I’ve ever had (insert café, beer, and tinto too)—berenjena frita con miel—extremely thinly sliced, lightly breaded and fried eggplant with honey drizzled on top.  Seriously—if you ever see berenjena frita con miel, order two.  Bring some back for me.  Thanks.  At this bar they kept a running tab for each table with grease-paint pens on the bar—kind of cool.  Then over to walk around the Sevilla Cathedral and pop in to a 5 star hotel to have a drink on their rooftop terrace across from the Cathedral.  It was a nice way to spend the afternoon with Susanah and Brian before they headed back for their long drive to Madrid.  Kate, Katie and I took a cab to our little hotel and checked in to rest up a bit before exploring more.  Since I was the person who had the coffee earlier, I (who am usually the queen of napping), got up to explore the local neighborhood a bit.  I tried to buy some cool door handles from a hardware store, but that didn’t happen.  The proprietors sort of disappeared.  After a mini-siesta, we headed back out to check out Sevilla and found ourselves back by the cathedral.  One of the beautiful things about traveling with adventurous, flexible people is that we can find lots of amazing things to do…and also, sometimes, since we are so adventurous and flexible, it’s a bit like water-tubing down a stream—there’s only a general direction without a definitive final destination in mind.  That was Sevilla, and Kate, using the newly acquired “hey, let’s go to the top of a hotel for a drink” technique, looked up and saw a rooftop terrace.  5 minutes later we were on the roof of Hotel Eme, directly across from the cathedral, for sunset/moonrise/sangria.  All of it was breathtaking—deep open conversations about intentions for life, the light of the sunset and moonrise doing a dance across the façade of the cathedral, and a fresh breeze cooling everything down for the evening.  After several hours that felt timeless and suspended, we were off to a late dinner, and not quite wanting the evening to be over after that we popped in to a local bar for a late night aperitif (or two—Francesco--the gay bartender who was heading to San Francisco the next day—and I hit it off). and  The locals were drinking “dulce vino” which I tried and proclaimed “la leche”, which kind of kicked off the group impromptu sing-alongs with the bar patrons (Kate does a fantastic rendition of “I Will Survive”.  I may or may not have video of this, but I do not have the broadcast rights.)  We almost got home without taking a cab, but decided that that was the wisest thing to do as we weren’t quite sure exactly where we were (although, we had been headed in the right direction). 
Wednesday, Day 4
A bit drizzly on and off, today started with chocolate e churros, and entailed some shopping in Sevilla—the Sevilla H&M is my new favorite store.  Ko, if you are reading this, I got a jacket you will approve of.  I got some watermelon juice and people watched, we spiraled into several stores, cafes, and tapas places, as our time with Katie wound to an end (she was heading to Paris to visit with friends before heading back to Qatar, where she lives & works). Kate and I caught a 7pm bus back to Cadiz, and I slept a solid 10 hours to awaken to a very rainy thundery day in Cadiz.
Thursday, Day 5
Rainy Day in Cadiz—after several torrential downpours, I went out with Mary Andres, one of my colleagues (yay colleagues from California—I get to visit with them easily when we get back!).  We walked through some parks, out onto some of the walls of the castle where Mary showed me a photography exhibit on ships she had found the previous day, and then we went to find a short-cut to El Quini to be sure to confirm for the evening’s flamenco festivities. We did finally find El Quini, which was closed, it being siesta time.  We took a short-cut back from El Quini to the ship, and I decided at that point it was best not to take short-cuts to and from El Quini—there was a very simple long way around that avoided the phenomenon of being lost in Cadiz yet again (for those of you who know me, you know I have a pretty good sense of direction, and yet I never did full on grasp the intricacies of Cadiz).  Back at the ship I took a nap and had dinner and waited with anticipation for 8:20 when I hoped that at least viente people would show up for the flamenco show, and where I also hoped that there would indeed be a flamenco show.
Word had spread quickly, and at the appointed hour, we had about 40 people waiting in Tymitz square for the flamenco show.  Now that I had at least 20 people, I was a little nervous about what I was leading everyone in to—it was definitely a leap of faith.  We walked the 15-20 minutes over to El Quini, losing a couple of folks to other adventures, and showed up at the bar, where they had set up long tables for everyone.  They were definitely a bit surprised at the number of us that showed up, but graciously found extra chairs and started bringing out some drinks and appetizers.  We found out that they’re lead guitarist was sick, and the singers looked a bit nervous.  I never did get any of the singer’s names, but there was the tall muscular singer (and back-up guitar player), the older wiry gentleman, and then two younger men—probably in their very early 20’s or late teens.   The first song got off to a shaky start as they found their pace and settled in;  there was definitely an internal uh-oh moment as I wondered where this was going to go, but after the first song, which seemed sort of like their traditional song they always play but minus their regular guitar-player, they launched into material that they were more comfortable with and it took off from there.  Sweet, beautiful, genuine, a little rough around the edges (with one of the younger guys occasionally texting), their songs unfolded as their stories unfolded.  It was the wiry older gentleman’s birthday…one of the younger men on stage (the non-texter) was his son, who was also a soulful singer.  In my mind he represented the up and coming form of flamenco, yet was still a bridge to the historical flamenco—I felt like we were seeing the manifestation of the passing down of a tradition and the layering of something new upon it.  Out in the wings was the wife of the wiry birthday singer, who got teary eyed watching her son and husband sing together;  in addition, there was the girlfriend of the son, who came on stage to sing a beautiful song with him as well.   Around us were the sweet family staff, passing out tinto veranos and tapas and beer, and at one point, the mother and daughter got on stage to do some dancing of their own—not in any fancy dresses, just in their simple every day clothes with their simple bartending aprons on.  That was my favorite part, the authenticity of being let into a community sharing and story.  After that it was inevitable at some point that I would get pulled onto stage to dance, which was sweet and embracing and I got to do some of my own fancy flamenco moves (there’s one I’ve always admired, when the dancers emphatically tap their chests and gracefully through their hands up in the air as if to say “yes, I am dancing this for you, but I am also dancing this for me, and you are lucky to be witness to all of this hotness”)—I’m not sure I entirely pulled it off, but I did get to bust out that move.  The night ended with many people on stage dancing and laughing and hugging and exchanging of facebook information.  Grateful for connection with one another, we were released back into the cool Cadiz night to head back to the ship. 
Friday, Day 6
The last day in port was a typical one—one last yummy meal, one last run to the local supermarket, one last run to (insert cool place here), one last (insert another yummy drink or dessert here), one last attempt to find an internet café and email or at least get started on a blog, and only succeed at about two or three of those things.  The only other thing I got to make space for was a walk along the beach to look for seaglass;  specifically, Cadiz seaglass (pretty much wherever I am takes on that description—it’s not just any seaglass, it’s CADIZ seaglass.  It’s not just any rain, it’s raining in AFRICA).  I found a lot of sea glass up and down the beach, although perhaps going to the supermarket and walking along the beach with all of the groceries in my backpack was not the most strategic move, it was a good space for some introspection.
I’m writing this in Glazer lounge on day one of our crossing from South Africa to Argentina, and the sun is setting almost directly in front of us as we head due west across the Atlantic and one of the crew has just walked in singing Bob Dylan’s “Blowing in the Wind”—“the answer my friend, is blowing in the wind, the answer is blowing in the wind”.  We are literally beginning to head in the direction of home and the conversations have started to turn a bit more inward, and for me there is a heightened poignancy, sense of beauty, and sense of impermanence.  I still have yet to write of the Canary Islands, but more importantly, Ghana, and South Africa, which were transformational for me in ways that I am not fully aware of yet.  I am committed to catching up on my written thoughts in the next week, and as I sail closer to home, I would love to hear from folks about how your lives are going and where you are headed yourselves.  Much love—Lisa



Thursday, October 18, 2012

Ubuntu

If I can let you in, if I can share a tiny amount of the impact that today had on me, I would send you to this site, and ask that if you are able and want to help stand in solidarity from afar, that you give to this organization.  The JL Zwane Centre is a church in the middle of one of Capetown's townships (Guguletu), that provides after school care, hospice, an HIV/AIDS support group, emergency food aid, and so much more.  The Reverend Dr Spiwo Xapile has been doing transformative work there for decades, including being one of the first religious organizations in South Africa to support folks who are HIV positive.  He talked today about the importance of crossing boundaries, and as a religious institution crossing the boundaries and stigmas of those living with HIV is a life-saving step for many.  While we were there, folks living with HIV came for meals, and kids came for dance lessons and drumming lessons and after-school programs.  To quote the Archbishop Desmond Tutu on Ubuntu: "One of the sayings in our country is Ubuntu – the essence of being human. Ubuntu speaks particularly about the fact that you can't exist as a human being in isolation. It speaks about our interconnectedness. You can't be human all by yourself, and when you have this quality – Ubuntu – you are known for your generosity. We think of ourselves far too frequently as just individuals, separated from one another, whereas you are connected and what you do affects the whole World. When you do well, it spreads out; it is for the whole of humanity."  Thank you--Love, Lisa
http://www.jlzwane.sun.ac.za/contactus.html

Monday, October 15, 2012

Cadiz, Espana--"La Leche"


fried fish--adobo (tuna?)

puntillas--calamari

close up of tortillas de camerones--thank you little shrimp!

Cadiz

tinto verano

figuring out Flamenco w/ tinto verano

pre-meal toast--me, Brian, Susanah, & Kate

aceitas--olives

iberico jamon

tortillas de camerones

Post-dinner picture with jamon, Kate, me, Katie & Brian & gruff but affable cook.

Susanah and Brian in front of the MV Explorer

Cadiz, Espana—La Leche
There’s still so much to process here, I’m going to fade in and out of listing our itinerary and telling stories.  “La Leche” is a colloquialism (aka slang) for “the bomb”.  Plus it means milk.  Spain was la leche, and we didn’t have a lot of milk, but we definitely sampled a wide array of tasty tapas and tintos.
Sunday, Day 1:  Wander Cadiz with Kate & Katie.  Have a snack at a café by the main cathedral.  Head up to the ocean road, and wander along the sidewalk by the ocean on top of one of the city walls.  Make it to the castle, decide to head back in to the maze of the city for some tapas.  After a bit of wandering, we find what seems to be a locals area and we pop in to a place called Pena, on El Quini (or maybe it’s called El Quini, on Pena?).  It’s a family place, with kids running around, and I can see at least three generations hanging out, bartending, or playing with kids.  Our waitress, Emma, is young—mid-twenties—friendly, funny, and wanting to practice some English with us.  One of the owners, Julio, comes by to say hello and check on us.  We order rounds of tinto verano (“summer wine”), which is a wine mixed with essentially a type of Sprite, and with slices of lemon or orange in it.  Definitely refreshing, with a little punch to it that sneaks up a bit.  We also get jamon, manchego and some fried fish, nothing fancy, but all delicious.  Off in the corner is a striking, tall, muscular man, also in his twenties, having a beer and riffing and joking with an older, wiry, compact, and muscular man.  They occasionally break out in to clips of songs (the older man singing, with pebbly voice—not quite gravelly, but strong and rough around the edges) and clapping, with others joining in and encouraging them.  It sounds like traditional flamenco songs, and even though I can’t follow the Spanish, I can hear the tones that flamenco is noted for—some joy, some sorrow, some loss, some hope, lots of pride and an overlay of poignancy.  At one point the flamenco songs they are singing inexplicably but unmistakably merge in a clip of Darth Vader’s Imperial March.  At this point I have had two tinto veranos, and feel comfortable enough to join in in my best Darth Vader voice “Luke, yo soy tu padre”.  Julio overhears me and there’s a pause and a moment of figuring out amongst the singers that I have just indeed made a joke, which ends in a lot of laughter all the way around.  We ask Emma, our waitress, where we should go for a flamenco music show, and she say’s “Here, on Friday!”  Unfortunately we explain that Friday is the day we set sail.  They give us the name of another place to check out on Wednesday, and then the impromptu musicians and bartenders have an animated discussion…”how many people could you bring?” “Viente (20)” I say, making it up and pretty confident that we could make that happen.  Some more back and forth and then they offer to put together a show for us on Thursday night for 20 people at 5 euros apiece.  I’m to call on Tuesday morning to confirm with them.  We say our goodbyes with hugs all around and wander the maze of streets back to the ship.  (I will refer to Cadiz’s maze of streets repeatedly, because they are a maze, and I got very undeniably and pleasantly lost several times.)
We headed back to the ship to change and meet up with Brian and Susanah—Brian is a dear friend of mine from SAS Spring 98—we were RDs together, and Susanah is his sweet, intelligent, beautiful wife of 1 year.  They live in Madrid together and took three days off of work and life to drive 6+ hours down to Cadiz to visit and travel.  I am grateful that they did so because their visit enabled us to go deeper into Spain on many levels, and the best part of all of it was just their company with such a fantastic country as the backdrop.  We wandered around (yes, there is a lot of wandering around on this trip) that evening looking for a place for dinner, and Katie found a little place on a side street that had potential.  Brian and Susanah checked it out, and after seeing a leg of jamon and two older, wizened proprietors, declared it officially ok from a local perspective.  Meson La Cuesta did not disappoint—we had canas (small beers) to accompany our puntillas (essentially little fried calamari—the BEST fried calamari I’ve ever had), lightly battered fried fish, tortillas de camarones (delicious chickpea flour fried pancakes with whole baby shrimp in them), and sliced jamon that just melted in your mouth.  Toss in fresh bread and outstanding olives and amazing company, wrap in the ambience of Cadiz and the gruff but essentially friendly and very knowledgeable wait-staff, and voila—one of the most memorable evenings and meals of my life.  Here ends day 1 of Spain—5 more to come!